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John Gottman

John Gottman

Relational & Systemic Therapy

Couples and Family Therapy

“Successful couples don’t avoid conflict; they repair it skilfully.”

— John Gottman (b. 1942)

Clinical Overview & Scientific Approach

Evidence-based psychological therapies for couples and families play a central role in improving communication, resolving conflict, and strengthening relationships. These approaches are grounded in scientific research, ensuring that interventions are effective and tailored to the needs of the family unit or couple.

Common evidence-based models include Cognitive Behavioural Couple Therapy (CBCT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Systemic Family Therapy. Each of these emphasises not only reducing symptoms of distress but also nurturing healthier patterns of interaction.

Therapeutic Modalities & Long-Term Relational Resilience

CBCT helps couples identify unhelpful thinking styles and behaviours, teaching practical strategies to manage disagreements and increase mutual support. EFT focuses on attachment and emotional bonds, enabling partners or family members to express vulnerability and respond with empathy, thereby deepening trust.

Systemic Family Therapy looks at relationship dynamics across the whole family, recognising that difficulties often arise from circular patterns of interaction rather than an individual’s problem.

Evidence shows that these therapies can improve relationship satisfaction, reduce rates of conflict, and enhance wellbeing for adults and children alike. Importantly, they also provide protective benefits against relapse in mental health difficulties such as depression or anxiety.

Consultants Delivering This Service

Our accredited psychologists and psychotherapists experienced in this clinical area.

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Jarah Koomson

Jarah Koomson

Consultant Psychotherapist

Consultant psychotherapist focusing on anxiety disorders, depression, and compassion focused therapy (CFT).

Tami Greene

Tami Greene

Consultant Psychotherapist

Consultant psychotherapist offering EMDR, trauma-informed CBT, and emotional regulation support.

Dr Joyce Blake

Dr Joyce Blake

Consultant Psychologist

Consultant psychologist specializing in young people (10-17) and adult psychotherapeutic interventions, CBT, and EMDR.

Hewa Khalilifar

Hewa Khalilifar

Consultant Psychotherapist

Consultant psychotherapist delivering evidence-based CBT and systemic relational therapies for couples and families.

Georgia Gibbs

Georgia Gibbs

Consultant Psychotherapist

Specialist in compassionate psychotherapy, self-worth, and adaptive behavioral modification.

Session Attendance Policy for Minors

We work with adults from 18 years of age, and with young people aged from 10 to 17. For children aged 10 to 15 years, a second responsible adult must be in attendance during sessions.

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Contact our confidential reception to discuss availability, fees, or to arrange an initial session for couples and family therapy.

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